爱不是用眼睛看而是用心去感受
Love is not seen through the eyes, but experienced through the heart. This is a common saying in Chinese, which means that love is not about looking at someone, but about feeling them.
When we look at someone, we often focus on their appearance, their actions, and their words. But love, as a deeper and more profound emotion, is not about these things. It is not about how someone looks, but about how they make us feel.
Love is about the way they treat us, the way they listen to us, the way they support us. It is about the way they make us feel loved, cared for, and cherished. And it is about the way they make us feel whole, complete, and content.
Love is not about what someone else thinks of us, but about what we think of ourselves. It is not about how we compare ourselves to others, but about how we compare ourselves to ourselves.
Love is about self-love, and it is about love for others. It is about being kind, compassionate, and caring towards others, just as we would towards a loved one.
So, let us not rely on our eyes to experience love, but let us rely on our heart to experience it. Let us not look for love in someone else, but let us look for it in ourselves. And let us not compare ourselves to others, but let us compare ourselves to ourselves. Because that is the only way to experience love, and to truly understand it.
